Hold up. When I read the headline I had assumed that this was a wife and husband, girl guy deal. Cause then it would be kinda shocking. Like “Oh my god my husband went into my underwear drawer, put on my thong, and is now talking to gay guys.” I dropped all that when i just found out these are just two gay dudes. That’s just what gay guys do i think right? I mean wearing thongs and shit, that i assume some gay guys do. More of a cross dressing thing maybe? but that just seems like its in a gay guys repertoire. The cooking and making a mess? Thats just cooking. Can’t blame the guy for wanting to be Tom Colicchio for you and along the way he makes a mess, so what? So the only thing left i guess is the talking to other gay dudes. From what I gather from years of watching SVU is gay guys love to party. They’re just a promiscuous breed. I feel like everyone knows that. They also party with harder drugs. Thats just common knowledge. They’re like a wild stallion. Just because you guys got married doesn’t mean you’ve broken that bronco. If i were this gay guy id just turn it into a party and go a whole nother level above him. Just a gay orgy like when lloyd was in charge or Ari’s house. Let the gay guys thrive in their natural habitat.